I've Been Thinking About This…

Some thoughts on chapter 3 as promised:

(v 1-2) Wives: Here is a word to the wise. In Peter’s day and age, the idea that a woman should have a religion other than her husband’s was unthinkable. A Greek historian living c. 46-127AD, said,

“A wife should not acquire her own friends, but should make her husband’s friends her own. The gods are the first and most significant friends. For this reason, it is proper for a wife to recognize only those gods whom her husband worships.” Plutarch, Advice to Bride and Groom 19, Moralia 140D

So when she becomes a Christian, what should she do? Should she push/demand/nag her husband into becoming one as well? Should she separate from or divorce him? Peter says no. Instead, continue in the way you were going; only make sure you show him respect and purity of conduct.

(v 3-6) Adornment: Fashion is not a new phenomenon – dying hair, wearing wigs, new hair styles, jewelry, haute couture was all very much in vogue in those days too. And Peter wasn’t saying don’t do it (presumably in moderation); he was saying that the internal beauty was so much more important – “The imperishable beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which in God’s sight is very precious.”

(v 7) Husbands: Husbands only get one verse, but it’s a doozy! The stale old saw is that no man can understand a woman. Peter puts the lie to this – it is the husband’s job to do exactly that for his wife. And by understanding her, he finds her heart, for she is then loved and she knows it. What wife doesn’t long for that? Further, she should be shown honor, not treated as a second-class citizen just because the husband is physically bigger or has society ‘on his side’. She is fully his equal in God’s eyes; she is a fellow-heir to the kingdom. And lastly – if you’re messing with her, you’re messing with God – kiss that prayer life goodbye!

Do not miss what Scripture says each is to give the other – she craves love, which he is to develop and demonstrate through understanding. Love is not his deepest need – he yearns for respect, which she is to give without qualification. Respect is not a reward, any more than love is – it is what is right in God’s order of things.

(v 8-12) Unity: be as one with God and each other, and if you are thinking God’s thoughts, these areas will fall into place. (In vv 10-12 Peter is quoting Ps 34:12-16.)

(v 13-14) Be zealous for good: Peter is writing around 63AD, just before the burning of Rome when Nero outlawed Christianity and began the first of many waves of persecution. Up to this point, Christianity was perceived as a sect of Judaism which was a lawful religion in the Roman Empire. As a result, the general feeling at this time was that obeying the government was no harder for a Christian then than it is today. However, if you do suffer for righteousness, then there is a reward in Heaven.

(v 15-16) Defense: Be ready to defend your hope in the Savior who defended you against the cost of your sin.

(v 17-18) Suffering: here is a flavor of 1 Pet 2:19-23 popping up again – and our sufferings connect us to Christ as well (James 1:2-3).

(v 19-20) Christ in Hades: He preached to those who were lost before His crucifixion.

(v 21-22) Baptism: We are not saved by baptism but by the blood of Jesus; however, baptism is an indication that we are resurrected just as Jesus was – cleansed not of dirt but of sin.

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